Losing is a serious challenge to everything. The daily life, our orientation, our emotions… We always intend to refer to what we are looking for: objects, clothes, a perfume, a book on the table. However, all the material you find is useful. Otherwise, you can slow down the dueling process, keeping a painful bottle in a comforting place.
Without superstitions or prohibitions, it is best to avoid any loss. No, if we don’t live, if we don’t, we’ll stay with you… and don’t go to peace.
Watches are deviated at the time of death
This detail may seem banal, or perhaps poetic: a watch held at the moment of the party. Sin embargo, in many traditions, this small symbol represents a moment of standing in time… that unconsciously can impede our advance.
Why avoid conservation?
A lost watch may unconsciously block your journey across the road. It turns into a constant record of the precise moment of the loss, freezing the emotion in a place to allow it to evolve. Is more therapeutic therapy reinitiarlo… or dejarlo ir con delicadeza.
Medicamentos y suministros medicos
When she was locked up at the end of her life, we had several boxes of medicines, a blood pressure monitor, blood pressure monitors, a pill… With our guards “for if we were there” or why we didn’t have to worry about them.
¿Why remove it?
These objects are considered to be sufficiently fragile and fragile. It is difficult to cope with a difficult time and can be affected by the environment of the home without our demos. Desecharlos con cuidado (for example, in the farmacia) also need to nourish the emocional environment of the home.
Sábanas, almohadas o ropa muy íntima
Keeping a scarf, a sweater, a notebook… why not? But sleeping with the other person’s used sheets or using their underwear (even if it’s been washed) is another story.
Why avoid these items?
They retain a physical trace of the deceased. For some, this can be comforting… but for others, it creates an attachment that is difficult to overcome. If these objects evoke sadness or insomnia, it could be a sign that it’s time to let go of them.
Biological remains: hair, teeth, nails.
In the past, a hair medallion or a baby tooth were kept as a childhood memento. But in the context of mourning, these objects can have a completely different meaning.
Why might this be disturbing?
These physical “remains” hold great symbolic power. They can maintain a very tangible link with the deceased, sometimes making emotional separation difficult. Not to mention the potential distress for other family members.
So what can we preserve?
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